Are you done with people pleasing, feeling guilty, being disregarded & used in life, friendships and family relationships?
How about workplace bullying? Sick and tired of hiding, and calling in sick? How are those stress + anxiety levels going?
I am an absolute survivor in a very different way.
I grew up in a large family where domestic violence was very real, and as a result at the age of 17, I experienced the reality of being kicked out of home + feeling (and being) totally displaced. Because of the toxic nature within the family constellation I was born into, it led me to have some painful + interesting life experiences from people who were supposedly meant to provide a safe, supportive & loving space. The ultimate betrayal from people whom I believed were my closest and trusting supporters in life threw me a whole gamut of rejection, abandonment, social isolation, jealousy, backstabbing, gossip, shame, loneliness + nonstop judgement (at that time).
I became physically sick, tired + afraid of rejection, confrontation, non acceptance and more pain, that saw me live a life with zero boundaries for my own well being. I didn't even know what boundaries meant. I was people pleasing and betraying my own inner happiness and needs, and then feeling guilty for finding my voice. The reality is, I wasn't being a Leader of my life, but more so a Loser. I was weak and voiceless, tolerating the toxicity of other people's unhealed wounds. Through my life's experiences, I know I have become an extremely powerful and transformative Coach, Mentor and Healer for the unseen pain that people carry within them for the longest periods of time. Pain saw me step fully into my purpose, and to shine the light on the things people would prefer to hide.
Impenetrable is the Oath I make to myself every single day. It is an Oath I swear by and no one and nothing can break it. I ensure to champion every single day because I am innately powerful, and so are you. What is the personal Oath you live and die by, every day for yourself?
Choosing Leadership as opposed to Losership in life means healing to regulate your nervous system, doing a total life inventory and getting serious about boundaries for your own peace and happiness. People will say it's selfish. I say it's healthy, and the only way forward to a positive life.
From a young age, I recognised I had leadership qualities. I had to explore within myself to bring them to the surface (and not feel guilty for owning my inner gifts). I also knew I needed to become mentally impenetrable, and so I worked hard to ensure my mind will not be dictated to by what anyone else thinks about me. I'm staying in my own lane + keep my circle selectively small. It's by my personal choice that invite come into my circle.
If you want to take Leadership in your life instead of Losership, I have some powerful gameplans for you to consider. We can swear in on your personal life's Oath together.
I fought hard for myself, and the truth is, only you can save you. What does this actually mean, I hear you ask? It means the only YOU can decide your readiness to do the hard and confronting inner work, and only YOU can decide when you are ready to unpack your life. It may be confronting, distressing, uncomfortable and painful. But it's all part of the process to live your truth, justice and ultimately, freedom.
And remember this, when you're down and out, people could possibly metaphorically kick you even harder because sadly, this is the human condition. There are so many wounded and unhealed people who will try to bring their baggage to your table. Shield yourself and continue the fight for your truth, justice and freedom so you can stand in your absolute power.
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Let's lock in a meeting to discuss how this unique system will change the way your work with all your clients, for good.
